<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121</id><updated>2012-03-06T21:27:47.469-08:00</updated><category term='Shackerford; adultery'/><category term='charlotte restaurants; 50 ways to leave'/><category term='adultery crime'/><category term='shackelford'/><category term='recession'/><category term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category term='choosing a laywer'/><category term='divorced'/><category term='tax law'/><category term='divorce'/><category term='criminal conversation'/><category term='ilonka aylward'/><category term='divorce advice for men'/><category term='divorce courtroom tips for women'/><category term='high-asset 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divorce'/><title type='text'>Charlotte Divorce Lawyer</title><subtitle type='html'>Divorce and economics, economics of alimony, property division and child support.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' 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href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/10113335159751260'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2010/06/adultery-and-alimony.html' title='Adultery and Alimony'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-2072640317835644777</id><published>2010-06-22T12:48:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-22T12:48:05.150-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Alienation of Affections.m4v</title><summary type='text'></summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' 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src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-6067079167167414164</id><published>2010-06-20T13:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T13:10:24.171-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Mistress Sued - Wife Gets 9 Million Dollars</title><summary type='text'></summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/6067079167167414164/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=6067079167167414164&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/6067079167167414164'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/6067079167167414164'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2010/06/mistress-sued-wife-gets-9-million.html' title='Mistress Sued - Wife Gets 9 Million Dollars'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-1969890455639834850</id><published>2010-06-20T12:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-12T16:49:01.606-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='criminal conversation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cheating spouse'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Shackerford; adultery'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='shackelford'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='alienation of affections'/><title type='text'>Cynthia Shackelford's nine million dollar marriage and the Alienation of Affections Debate</title><summary type='text'>continued from September 2009Cynthia Shackelford, the last big winner of the alienation of affections lottery, has stirred it up once again.  One of the favorite pastimes of the North Carolinians -- the Alienation of Affections Debate.  Should the law be abolished?  Or should every state have it?       The proponents of alienation of affections law typically scream “protect the children,” sue the</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/1969890455639834850/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=1969890455639834850&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/1969890455639834850'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/1969890455639834850'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2010/06/cynthia-shackelfords-nine-million.html' title='Cynthia Shackelford&apos;s nine million dollar marriage and the Alienation of Affections Debate'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-275644100362885642</id><published>2010-06-17T06:04:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-07-04T19:28:08.959-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='central park'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='sex in the park'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='adultery in the park'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='new york central park'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='adultery crime'/><title type='text'>Sex in the Park or Ode to Proper Procedure.</title><summary type='text'>I read this story somewhere.  Maugham maybe?  An eighty-year old spinster looks under her bed every night, making sure that nobody is hiding in the dark, ready to attack her in her sleep. She has been doing this for the past sixty years, but have not lost hope.  One day, she finally discovers a man hiding there!    Today I feel just like that old bird.  For a decade, I have instructed clients to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/275644100362885642/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=275644100362885642&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/275644100362885642'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/275644100362885642'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2010/06/ode-to-proper-procedure.html' title='Sex in the Park or Ode to Proper Procedure.'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-7750784026170299202</id><published>2009-12-30T20:21:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2010-09-12T11:45:37.269-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='how to hire a lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='choosing a laywer'/><title type='text'>How to hire a lawyer -- BS busting by numbers</title><summary type='text'>If you do not do that sort of thing regularly, interviewing an attorney can be one of the most frustrating, nerve-wracking and, in the end, futile experiences.Maybe you were having a tiff with your business partner, and he sued you; maybe your wife left you with your business partner; or perhaps your son turned up in the wrong room at the wrong party, and is all of a sudden charged with </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/7750784026170299202/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=7750784026170299202&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/7750784026170299202'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/7750784026170299202'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/12/how-to-hire-lawyer-by-numbers.html' title='How to hire a lawyer -- BS busting by numbers'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/Szw37yPBGpI/AAAAAAAAAEA/XfBdZlaiurI/s72-c/salvador-dali-clock.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-1013264251495917210</id><published>2009-10-31T20:51:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T08:50:46.620-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='aylward family law'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cheating spouses'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorced'/><title type='text'>Dating Potential of the Closed Files</title><summary type='text'>Every third Thursday at 8:30, Vicky and I share a bottle of Kinzmarauli and our unfailing disappointment with the Charlotte dating pool. Vicky, a beautiful skinny shiny wedding photographer has never been married and enjoys a sanguine view on the recently divorced. To her, my growing collection of closed files is a land of walks on the beach, rainbows and Tiffany rings, all turned into stone by a</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/1013264251495917210/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=1013264251495917210&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/1013264251495917210'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/1013264251495917210'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/10/dating-potential-of-closed-files_31.html' title='Dating Potential of the Closed Files'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-5243395048778118053</id><published>2009-10-10T06:03:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-10T06:55:54.107-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='IRS'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tax law'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='innocent spouse relief'/><title type='text'>INNOCENT SPOUSE RELIEF--just because you presumed to wear white at your wedding does not mean you qualify</title><summary type='text'>Heinz, the Baron Krauss von Espy, whose day job involves tax law (Baron's gotta eat) shared his wisdom on the intricacies of the Innocent Spouse Relief Act:"being an attractive woman is a handicap here.  You may have hoodwinked some  local judge, but the Service can be very hard nosed.  Moreover, your  auditor  knows that the more issues, questions and adjustments he finds, the more time  you'll </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/5243395048778118053/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=5243395048778118053&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/5243395048778118053'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/5243395048778118053'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/10/innocent-spouse-relief-just-because-you.html' title='INNOCENT SPOUSE RELIEF--just because you presumed to wear white at your wedding does not mean you qualify'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/StCPqzPHS5I/AAAAAAAAAD4/JD71lE4zk4I/s72-c/tax-code.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-7344207062453622852</id><published>2009-09-14T21:53:00.001-07:00</published><updated>2010-06-20T08:51:38.324-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='criminal conversation'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cross examination'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='cheating spouses'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='alimony'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='De Beers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='alienatino of affections north carolina'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='alienation of affections'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='diamonds'/><title type='text'>ALIENATION OF AFFECTIONS -- Tax on the rich?</title><summary type='text'>A good friend of mine (not a lawyer, but a naturally gifted cross-examining talent) reports saying this to his wife:-- Honey, are you cheating on me?-- Of course not, darling!-- You seeing somebody else?-- No, darling!-- You having sex with anybody else?-- Yes, dear. Spouses cheat on each other. I know you do not want to hear this. I do not really want to have to say it to you. But it is best you</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/7344207062453622852/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=7344207062453622852&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/7344207062453622852'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/7344207062453622852'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/09/alienation-of-affections-tax-on-rich.html' title='ALIENATION OF AFFECTIONS -- Tax on the rich?'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/Sq8htIZv66I/AAAAAAAAACg/pf_DZnaBCNo/s72-c/IceonFire.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-8724715581748824925</id><published>2009-09-14T21:42:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-11T19:35:18.340-07:00</updated><title type='text'>ALIENATION OF AFFECTIONS -- Tax on the rich?</title><summary type='text'>&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     Normal   0         false   false   false                             MicrosoftInternetExplorer4   &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if gte mso 9]&gt;     &lt;![endif]--&gt;&lt;!--[if !mso]&gt;  st1\:*{behavior:url(#ieooui) }  &lt;![endif]--&gt; &lt;!--  /* Font Definitions */  @font-face 	{font-family:Georgia; 	panose-1:2 4 5 2 5 4 5 2 3 3; 	mso-font-charset:0; 	mso-generic-font-family:roman; 	mso-font-pitch:</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/8724715581748824925/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=8724715581748824925&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/8724715581748824925'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/8724715581748824925'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/09/alienation-of-affections-tax-on-rich_14.html' title='ALIENATION OF AFFECTIONS -- Tax on the rich?'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-4575308478286285602</id><published>2009-07-18T17:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-11T19:31:53.773-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='courtroom advice for men'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce advice for men'/><title type='text'>Courtroom Behavior: Five tips for Men</title><summary type='text'>Five tips on courtroom decorum -- for men.1. Wear socks. For the girls, sartorial faux pas may have the benefit of a shock value. Dress your female client loudly enough and everybody in the courtroom might just forget what the hearing was all about. The judge will be telling his clerk: “Mary, can you believe the skirt on Mrs. What’s-her-name when she was testifying about what-was-that- about?!” </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/4575308478286285602/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=4575308478286285602&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/4575308478286285602'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/4575308478286285602'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/07/courtroom-behavior-for-men.html' title='Courtroom Behavior: Five tips for Men'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-4352246880418901101</id><published>2009-07-13T20:24:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-12-04T20:54:36.560-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce courtroom tips for women'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stockings; divorce advice for women; courtroom decorum'/><title type='text'>Courtroom Behaviour: Five tips for Women.</title><summary type='text'>Five tips of courtroom decorum – for women.1. Divorce court is dull. Terrifying, yes. Tragic, yes. Devastating, yes. But also – unexpectedly and unavoidably dull.Ladies, this is important! No matter how much the judge and the lawyers bore you, no matter how long your husband's accountants drone on, how incomprehensibly mind-numbing the direct of financial advisers, real estate experts and private</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/4352246880418901101/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=4352246880418901101&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/4352246880418901101'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/4352246880418901101'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/07/courtroom-behaviour-five-tips.html' title='Courtroom Behaviour: Five tips for Women.'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-4660428092665474817</id><published>2009-06-26T18:12:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-11T20:25:56.502-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fifty ways to leave'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Charlotte Zagat'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte taste; providence cafe'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte restaurants; 50 ways to leave'/><title type='text'>50 ways to dump your loved one</title><summary type='text'>Zagat has spoken on love and break-up. We now know the proper restaurants in which to "dump" our significant others. Apparently, the advantages to seek out include (a) the number of exits to assure rapid egress and (b) the looks of the regulars and the staff (we think for the benefit of the dump-ee who will need all the distractions (s)he can manage.)Natually, all approved grounds are located in </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/4660428092665474817/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=4660428092665474817&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/4660428092665474817'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/4660428092665474817'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/06/50-ways-to-dump-your-loved-one.html' title='50 ways to dump your loved one'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-66264518498253845</id><published>2009-06-20T18:39:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-11T20:10:51.450-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogger'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='aylward family law'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ilonka aylward'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='north carolina divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce lawyer'/><title type='text'>Divorce Attorneys -- When should You Get One?</title><summary type='text'>It is a popular belief among couples on the brink of divorce that the very act of engaging an attorney increases acrimony and hatred.  That is a logical fallacy.  First of all, acrimony and hatred is only created when your spouse becomes aware that the counsel has been retained. Banging the door to punctuate your yelp “You will hear from my lawyer” is a tactic quite different from that of tacitly</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/66264518498253845/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=66264518498253845&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/66264518498253845'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/66264518498253845'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/06/divorce-attorneys-when-should-you-get.html' title='Divorce Attorneys -- When should You Get One?'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5671666840538932121.post-1713701776635555521</id><published>2009-06-20T11:58:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-10T14:59:50.697-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='charlotte divorce lawyer'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='high-asset divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='recession'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='alimony'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce advice for men'/><title type='text'>Marital Economy</title><summary type='text'>My phone rang unusually early.A deep, calm, confident voice inquired:"Is now a good time to divorce my wife?""It is seven o'clock on Saturday.  Best time to stay married," I opined.The man chuckled, but pressed on eagerly."The economy. You know I mean the economy. Don’t you read the papers!""The bloody Academy again," I thought.This "recession / divorce" buzz is nothing new. In 2008, the American</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/feeds/1713701776635555521/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=5671666840538932121&amp;postID=1713701776635555521&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/1713701776635555521'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5671666840538932121/posts/default/1713701776635555521'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://charlottedivorcelawyer.blogspot.com/2009/06/gas-prices-up-divorce-prices-down.html' title='Marital Economy'/><author><name>Charlotte Divorce Blog</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12368262891783641243</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/S-RjhnqxN1I/AAAAAAAAAEQ/LYNT9zS1g18/S220/Long+Gold+Dress.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/__hxGysHCLHs/Sq8oQDwI7lI/AAAAAAAAACw/Xrm4fWAIsvs/s72-c/IMG_0824.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry></feed>
